Stop telling people about your problems;
20% don’t really care,
20% rejoice that you have problems,
20% will judge you, and blame you.
20% will pretend to help,
10% will try to help just a little bit.
10% will help you, but that will be their daily talk and examples to share every time they come across any one with a similar problem.
So what do you do with your problems? — Ask Jesus for help: He is the only one who will listen 100% help you 100% and you can trust him 100% to never tell anyone about your problems. The best lesson I learned from my dear father and I hold it dear to my heart.